A lot of distractions will come your way and if you aren't properly guided,you might begin to lose focus and develop cold feet.
For some,that's when they fall into sexual sin with their ex because they are so deceived by emotions that couldn't keep them together in the first place.
Alicia (not real name) shared anonymously of how she discovered her husband slept with his ex two days to their wedding.
Though she hasn't yet confronted him but she is so cold and not interested in a marriage that's less than a month.
Funnily enough, if you hear from the man, he would admit it's a mistake and maybe blame it on the devil.
The devil will just be screaming, "not me, please."
So,how then can you avoid all these temptations and be focused on your wedding and partner?
📌Firstly, refuse to entertain any chat you don't feel comfortable about.
Why is your Ex who dumped you in the most cruel way reconnecting with you all of a sudden after you posted your Pre- Wedding Pictures?
Why are they suddenly apologizing for the wrong way they treated you and telling you they wish you both could get back?
So in essence, if you never got to post those pictures,they wouldn't apologize or reach out?
You need to be smart to know they mean no good for you.
They've sensed you are about to move on joyfully and they are out to destroy that move.
Some even go as far as reminding you of different lovemaking escapades you both had and you are entertaining such?
What you don't want to eat, don't smell it at all.
📌 Secondly, don't give what you can't take.
If you know you wouldn't feel happy if the reverse was the case, then nip it in the bud.
Stop exposing your future spouse to embarrassments. The other day, chats a married man had with multiple ladies few weeks to his wedding were littered all over Facebook.
He couldn't deny any of them and everyone kept having so much pity for his wife.
The days after her wedding that should be happy days for her were turned to embarrassing days with uncultured people not only dragging her husband but taking that drama to her comment section.
📌Thirdly, know that not everyone will love your choice of a spouse and it shouldn't surprise you.
Some do not necessarily dislike your choice but they know the positive impact that choice will have on you and they dread it.
I remember a young man who got married to a focused young lady and his friends were making funny comments of how he stopped hanging out in clubs with them and keeping late night since he met her.
That was the lady's offence. Funny, right?
She was such a positive influence on him that they felt they had lost him who was always sponsoring such outings and sponsoring their lavish lifestyle.
Things he couldn't achieve in years despite his high financial level,he achieved them in just a few years of meeting the lady he eventually married.
If you are convinced beyond reasonable doubt about your choice, shun the noise and focus on that choice.
I wish I can share more but I will do so on my WhatsApp status when I can.
Know that, a lot of temptations can arise once you decide to get married,so be better equipped to handle them.
Love And Light ❤️