Hi Admin please kindly share my story and keep me anonymous, thank you.
I met this guy through a friend one thing lead to another we have made love the day we met …after what happened between us that day i never went back to him cos i really don't want relationship with him which i told him and he accepted …meanwhile this guy had a friend that i saw the day i came to visit him ,i really don't know him much cos i met him on his way out so i didn't take notice of him, so when i got home that fateful day i got a message on my phone saying he loves me the moment he saw me . I asked him who he was n how he got my number he said a friend who is very close to me gave him number because they both worked in the same office he got know we re friend through facebook .
…..long story cut short we started talking we became very good friends and he asked me out which i accepted we started dating. Later I found out he got my number from the guy i said we made love once and he lied to me that it was my close friend that gave him my number but i later forgive him.
We continued our relationship so one day he sent me a message that his friend told him i came to visit him and spent a night with him, I was so angry that i had to unblock his friend cos i blocked him and asked him what is the meaning of the message he sent to my boyfriend and he got angry and said that he know my boyfriend took my number from his phone and he was angry that i am dating his friend which i told him i never knew my guy was his friend I met the day I came visiting, that it was later i found out so he got angry and started fighting my boyfriend that he stole me away from him which i told him he knows we never dated.
It caused a big fight that the started threatening my guy. My guy had to report him to the police due to the threat, because of all this fight i want to end the relationship because I really don't want friends to fight because of me.
I have tried talking to the other guy to calm down same to my boyfriend but my boyfriend doesn't want the fight too but the other guy is very violent. My guy don't want me to end the relationship even the mom has been begging me, am just confused.
I want to know if i did bad by accepting my guy’s relationship not knowing he was the friend to the guy i had a fling with just once?
By Mary Onah
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