Sir, please I need help. I reside in Rundu, Namibia. I don't know what to do.
I am married to my husband for 13 years and we had 2 children. 2 weeks ago I lost my phone and my husband gave me one of his old phones. When I connected on facebook, my husband's old messenger messages appeared and I discovered that my husband is sleeping with the wife of his big brother, same father and same mother.
I read all their conversations, and it was my husband who started the romantic talk until she finally gave in. they often even see each other on the bed of his brother, a big brother who takes care of him. My husband is not very rich and it's the big brother who takes care of him and pays for the children's schooling.
I saw a conversation where my husband even asked the wife to give him a child in memory of their relationship. I took his new phone and I checked if the relationship was continuing where they stopped and I found out that they are still continuing, I'm overwhelmed I don't know how to react I didn't let him know that I was aware. I asked my father-in-law on purpose if it's normal to sleep with the wife of his brother my father-in-law said that it's an abomination in their house and one of the brothers could lose his life .
I also asked if his children and grandsons are aware of this tradition, then he said yes, so why is my man doing this, a man that I fight for the well-being of the family on a daily basis, why he can do this to his big brother who is a nice and sociable man, why so many questions torment me what to do please , I risk dividing a whole family and I fear for my life.
If my husband learns that I am aware he risks eliminating me so that no one knows, I believe he is capable because in the past, after the wedding I discovered that my husband had been imprisoned because he had taken the life of one of his friends and it was even this his brother who helped him get out.
Please help me, I need advice on how to handle this issue.
By Lilian Ngutu
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