How to know if she comes for love or for a help.

Dear Men,
When some men ran into financial brokenness,
They will blame it to their inability  to secure a stable job.

They will start to look for a job to solve their financial problems.
But..
When some women ran into financial brokenness,
They will blame it to their inability to get a good boyfriend, 
They will start looking for a boyfriend 
To solve their financial problems.
This means that,
Women never believe that they are broke, 
They believe that their financial problems 
Are caused by their singleness 
Or their current boyfriend who is unable to provide their needs.

That is why, when you ask an average Africa girl;
Why is your hair so unkept ?
Why do you dress so shabby?
Why don't you have a good phone?
She will tell you that , it is because she don't have a boyfriend.
Women don't take responsibility of their actions.

They must look for a man to pin the blame, 
This is their nature..
This shows that,
 some women are going into the relationship,
 not to find LOVE but to find HELP.
It is dangerous to date a woman who came into your life in search of help not for love;
You will be milked and drained financially 
And will be abandoned to the highest bidder.
That is why some men complained of been used  and dumped by a vvomsn, 
It is because, those women only came to their life for help not for love.

How will you know a woman, who came for help or for true love?
Well, it is not easy to know because of their pretentious nature,
but giving her a  "shit test" will help you.
Three things you mustn't do when you newly start a relationship;
1. Don't invest your emotions
2. Don't invest your finances
3. Don't commit to her .

Some immature ladies will make it easy for you to know their missions,
by their constant and incessant financial demands 
But mature ladies won't reveal their missions easily,
They will first buy your heart and convince you that they didn't come for your money but for your love
 before releasing their viperous venom on you.

What is shit-test in relationships or marriage? 
It is your constant decline of her financial demands while suggesting the alternatives .
Eg; you will always come up with stories, anytime she asks for your financial help,
 on how you can't meet her financial demands.

But, you will always suggest or direct to her on the available work she can do to earn such money.

Your shit-test will expose her mission. 
If she comes for love, she will be happy to follow your suggestions
 to work and earn money.

 But if she comes for help, 
she will be frustrated by your ceaseless boring stories and suggestions ,
 she will become impatient and quit the relationship.

Note; you can only shit-test a woman if you haven't committed or invested your emotions on her.

 When emotion is involved, every man turns to a fool.
Be wise.
Don't loose guard.