Love is
powerful, love is not blind and there is true love. Love speaks no
evil, love may be wicked but that's if you fall in love with the wrong
person.
Due to the numerous broken marriages and relationships today in society and also going by the fact that both rich and poor couples are recorded in the book of divorce and broken marriages, the world is left with surprise on what can keep a marriage alive and successful if the richest are getting divorced, and also what is the true meaning of love. To these questions, below are what so many people don't understand about love.
1) Don't expect your spouse to be in a
happy mood every day just because he loves you, it is not that he hates
you or doesn't want to have anything to do with you again, it is simply
because there can be downtime in a lovely marriage or relationship.
2)
There will be a time when your spouse will not give you the attention or the
intimacy you want, it is not that you are being snubbed or
unattractive, it is just that he is working hard for the financial
success of your marriage.
3) There will be a time your partner
will do something wrong to you, he doesn't mean to hurt you, remember no
man is perfect, you have to forgive and let go, that's part of what
makes love a beautiful thing.
4) There will be friends in your
life whether you are still in a relationship or already married but
don't for one day doubt that your spouse is your first priority.
5)
There will be a day when your partner will not be in the mood to have
conversations with anyone not even you, he will not be ready for
fun, jokes, and laughs, It's not that you are boring or maybe scary, he or
she just wants to be left alone to enable him to think about life and it's surprising.
6) There will be a moment when he will be in the
mood for lovemaking but unfortunately, you may not be in the mood at the
same time too but you have to satisfy your partner's bedroom need,
that's love.
7) Sometimes your spouse will raise their voice against
you, it is not that he does not respect you, he could be under pressure
to resolve urgent issues, at this point, understanding and love are
important.
8) Right after your honeymoon, you will start seeing
opposite genders that are more successful, charming, good attitude,
beautiful, or handsome than your spouse, this is when self-control will
help you to deal with the temptation of infidelity. Loving your spouse
is more than verbal expression.
9) Loving your spouse is when you
understand that there will be ups and downs in marriage and you don't
have to back out of the marriage because of these challenges.
10)
Love is when you know that your husband's money is for the family and
relatives and the same applies to your own money as well.
11)
Loving your spouse is to understand that storms are inevitable in
marriage. There is no marriage without storms and standing with your
spouse is very important for the success and happiness of your Marriage.
Life
is full of unforeseen, and unpredictable situations, days are not the
same, but when love is constant, your own Marriage will overcome.