If you notice any of these signs in your relationship, it means your man is using you.
1... He only contact you when he needs something. The only time you will see him text, call or check up on you is when he needs something from you, maybe when he wants to knack you or he wants you to do something that will benefit him for him, that's the only time he will want you around.
2... He is reluctant to commitment. He would not want to be committed to you at all. You will be able to see it clearly that he is not emotionally connected to you at all.
3... He doesn't respect your boundaries. What you don't like are the things he will keep doing and when you seem to talk about it, he will make you look like you are talking too much, he wouldn't care how you feel about the things he does to you. He will keep treating you whichever way that pleases him.
4... He is inconsistent in the relationship. Today he is ON and doing well, tomorrow is OFF and doing anyhow. He leaves you guessing about his feelings towards you in the relationship, every time you will always be like, does this guy really love me or does this guy really want to marry me. He will always make you doubt his love for you.
5... He will be quick to disappear when things get tough. He will never be willing to sacrifice anything for you at all, be it his money, his time or his resources. You will never see him around you when things get tough or when you are facing any challenges, he will only be around you during the good days.
6... He is not sure about his feelings for you.
Today he will be like, baby is you that I choose, baby is you that I want to spend the rest of my life with, tomorrow he will be like, baby I don't think we can do this, baby I think we need to wait, you won't even know where he stands.
All these things I mentioned are signs that a man is faking his love for you Like I will always tell you, learn to pay attention to every sign that shows up in your relationship.