TOPIC: Challenges Couples Go THROUGH In Their Sex Life And Remedies (Single Stay Off)
Good sex starts with words.
Sex is a game that happens between couples. If it's a game, then talking must not be taken away.
For every game, people talk before the game, during and after the game.
If liverpool will play Man United. The fans brag about who will win. Please brag with your husband before you start the sex, start bragging from the morning while going to the office. Example
"I feel like knacking you but we will be late, I will catch you when you come back to this house"
"There is no style I imagine, let's come back from office, I will show you pepper"
"It's like you want to go to the office with my pussy" then you all laugh about it (This is part of being romantic)
"Come here, let's drink this herbs, in the evening, the match must be hot" You are couples, for crying out loud, there is nothing to be ashamed about.
"Tell your spouse, "I am horny". It's a blessing for your spouse to be horny towards you.
There are things that side chick and that man that want to sleep with your wife do, before it happens.
"Foreplay is good as a Christian"
"Raw talk with your wife is good as a child of God"
After sex, let your couple knows you enjoy the sex.
"Thank you my love, I really enjoyed you"
"You are so sweet"
"You are so beautiful "
These are more words will make him or her to do more next time
Then, tell your spouse, where you always want him or her to torch before, during and after sex. Most women want their husbands to hold them tight, after he release. Don't rush to the bathroom, hold her. If that's what she enjoys
Stop making your spouse feels, it's a sin to have sex the way he or she wants it.
Let's look at some few challenges couples face in their sex life and the remedies. As you change your approach, your marriage will be sweet again
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1. A SPOUSE WHO WANTS TOO MUCH SEX.
Some are married to a spouse (often times the husband) who wants sex regularly. This can easily make one feel used. Usually in such situations, the emotional connection is also weak. Address this by learning to do other things as a couple that don't involve sex.
2. A SPOUSE WHO IS NOT INTERESTED IN SEX.
Some are married to a spouse (often times the wife) who shows no interest in sex, perhaps because of emotional strain, past wounds, hormones, negative view towards spouse or as a result of conflict. Address this by talking things out, open up, change contraceptives. Realize that love making is important in marriage
3. A SPOUSE WHO DOES NOT TAKE CARE OF PERSONAL HYGIENE.
It is a struggle to kiss, lick, touch, rub or even make love to someone who doesn't brush their teeth, shower, wears the same underwear for days or doesn't care about presentation. If you have such a spouse, encourage each other to shower together, buy him/her underwear and recommend the one that excite you, form a couple's routine. If you are the culprit, remember that hygiene inspires intimacy
4. LUST.
Lust will make you struggle to be faithful, it will make you flirt with others over the phone, at the work place, in the neighbourhood and social media making it uncomfortable for your spouse. It can affect your desire for your spouse. Lust dies when you stop feeding it. Check out of lustful conversations, see people around you with respect, not sexual objects
5. UNMET SEXUAL EXPECTATIONS.
There is nothing as frustrating as being married but your sexual needs are not being fully met. Most likely they are not being fully met because you have not lovingly communicated to your spouse what you want, your favourite sexual positions and your fantasies. But remember, before you expect your spouse to meet your sexual needs, meet his/her sexual needs.
6. MEMORIES OF AN EX WHO USED TO BE GREAT IN BED.
Some people are fighting the memories they had of their ex/exes in bed. As they have sex with their spouse, they have images of the ex in mind. Let go of the past. See your spouse for the uniqueness he/she is. Start to praise your spouse sexually and your mind will register your spouse as the new definition of sexy.
7.. AFFAIRS.
When another is already servicing your body, you will come home to a spouse you are not interested in. On top of that, you will be filled with guilt to the point that you struggle to connect with your spouse; and if your spouse suspects or knows, he/she will shut you out. Just let the affair end
8. MASTURBATION.
Masturbation will make your spouse compete with your fingers. Your fingers will most likely win because you know how to please yourself but your marriage will lose. Address this by teaching your spouse how you want him/her to please you since you have already learnt your body.
9. A PENIS THAT CANNOT SUSTAIN AN ERECTION.
Most men lose their erection due to panic or lack of concentration because sex starts in the mind. Address this by relaxing.