The Marriage I Didn't See Happening

Am married traditionally but not officially with three kids. I separated with my husband after I had the first child, due to this my parents sent me back to school and I had a good paying job after graduation. After graduation I had my second child with a man I dated after my graduation but he breaks my heart bitterly but I moved on with life with my two children. 

My  ex_husband came begging after a period of about 6 years of separation which I accepted not knowing his true intentions until I return, I later on discovered that he never came back for me with his whole heart but he had his aims, meanwhile as a Christian I forgive him and we had the last child. My problem started when he started comparing my salary with his since I now earned more far better than his, you hear him saying that he can't carry a cup of water and drop it in an ocean especially when I asked him for food money and up keep, he will query me before he will give at times and he gives at will, he is not really committed to his responsibilities especially after I had my last child, he told me performing his conjugal right is not his priority for the moment that his focus are the children which  makes us to go for about 4-5 months  without it, this breaks me down because am also human and it has made me not be interested again since am becoming use to it.

The worst of it is that he is so stubborn even to his siblings and my parents, about two times my father send him a message that he wants to talk with him but he didn't respond to his message now my father is very angry and ask him not to step his feet at his compound. 

This man is stubborn up to the level that he doesn't listen to me, the only thing that matters to him is his children, so I have decided to leave but my worry is my children, the last one is still 3 years, he also has serious anger issues when it comes to his children, he can even harm someone when it comes to that. 

Sorry for the long post, I will be in the comments section reading your followers comments.

Sent by Angela Melody