19 Things You Do That Make Your Spouse Insecure.

1. Coming home late often without a good reason. Who are you from seeing?

2. No longer showing sexual interest in your spouse. Are you getting sex somewhere else?

3. Spending hours on your phone smiling. Who are you chatting with?

4. Exchanging suggestive messages with others yet you claim it is innocent flirting. Why are you making others feel special?

5. Treating other people better than you treat your spouse. Did your spouse stop being your priority?

6. Spending less time with your spouse and cancelling on your planned events. Must your spouse beg to be with you?

7. Your kisses have become cold and forced. Have you stopped being excited for your spouse?

8. Sudden secrecy on your side and getting defensive. Are you living a separate life? 

9. Other people knowing more about you than your spouse and before your spouse. When did you two stop being a team?

10. Your sudden effort to look good and smell good as you don't bother with your spouse. Are you trying to impress someone new?

11. The resurfacing of your ex and you two spending more time together. Has the past come to destroy the home?

12. You suddenly going to bed late when your spouse is asleep.  Are you avoiding your spouse?

13. You spending more time with friends who are not pro-marriage or pro-your marriage. Are you being negatively influenced?

14. Hurting your spouse and seeing no need to apologise. Did you stop caring?

15. You praising another and comparing your spouse with them. Do you long to be with them? 

16. Hiding your spouse from the public and social media. Don't you want people to know you are married and to whom? 

17. You constantly talking of separation but you are still in the marriage. Are you in or out?  

18. Giving stories that don't add up. Why are you lying?

19. Ignoring your spouse's phone calls and texts. Are you taking your spouse for granted?

Making your spouse insecure is wrong and selfish. Stop torturing your spouse with questions and assumptions. Get to calm the mind of your spouse, it is your role to make your spouse feel safe and assured