Many men drift apart from the woman they love when she gets pregnant.
This is usually because he was not ready for the pregnancy, or he fears fatherhood, or her pregnancy comes with hormonal changes and mood swings that he is not prepared to handle, or her pregnancy means a change in sex patterns between them or no sex at all, or pregnancy has financial demands, or she expects him to treat her and serve her with more care and he finds it too much.
This leads to many men cheating on or abandoning the woman they claim to love as they entertain other women who are less demanding, are less moody, have more calmer conversations and with non-pregnant body. Many marriages decline when children come into the picture and it is usually because of what happens during pregnancy and the few years after pregnancy.
Gentleman, don't abandon the woman in a process you started in sexual pleasure. Being head of the family means you offer leadership before conceiving, during pregnancy and in raising the child; not withdrawing from your wife and child when they need you the most. You do this by understanding the hormonal, physical and emotional changes of a pregnant woman; by realizing that even though you are not carrying the child in a womb, don't emotionally detach yourself from the child; by psychologically preparing for the responsibility of fatherhood as you make sure in doing so, you don't forget to still remain a great husband; and by realizing that those nine months of pregnancy are crucial but they will pass very quickly, please be patient.
Take pride in being dependable during pregnancy and actively present during the raising of the child. Don't let the coming of a child mess up the love you have with your Queen.